How to get Everything you want

We all have dreams and desires. And we wonder how to make them all happen. The answer is both simple and straightforward yet at the same time will require work and commitment on your part.

WHAT? How can that be?

Very simply – You can have everything you want as long as you are willing to help everyone around you get what they want first.  Let me repeat that - You can have everything you want as long as you are willing to help everyone around you get what they want first. The more you help others move along their dream paths the more you will find yourself moving along yours.

I know – this may sound counterproductive to you but if your sole focus is mainly on yourself, on just getting what you want, you are going to find the journey much harder, much less fulfilling and in the end unsuccessful. It is actually easier in comparison to focus your efforts and energy on helping those around you.  Think about the old saying “A rising tide raises all ships”. You are one of the ships and as you help all raise their tides, you naturally get lifted up in the process.

Now just because it is easier in comparison, that does not mean it will be easy. You will likely encounter long hard days as well as some sleepless nights as you endeavor to determine the best ways to help those around you. You will need to stretch your mental capabilities. You will need to enhance your leadership and mentoring skills. You will need to build up your stamina (both physical and mental).

Hard work yes, but so rewarding. You will begin seeing those around you thrive and move forward. And over time you will find yourself finding your dreams and desires fulfilled as well. It’s a win-win-win. Everyone you help wins, the world wins due to the ripple effect emanating from you, through the people you touch and then outward from them, and you win because you are growing, changing and becoming the person you were destined to be.

Commit to helping everyone around you to get what they want. Help them achieve their personal greatness and I assure you that you will achieve yours in the process. What a fantastic world we would be living in if everyone would just help lift everyone around them upward. It starts with one person saying yes I will. You can be that person and that change that helps make the world a better place (at least in your corner of it).